(Terimakasih pernah mengisi kekosongan itu. Kamu, ternyata potongan bagian yang selama ini hilang. Tapi kita seperti dalam elegi, memaksakan walau harusnya terbagi
Seperti bintang yang lelah berotasi, cahaya redupnya akan selalu ada, walau telah lama mati.
Atau kita yang sekarang cuma sebatas memori, sekadar luka dalam muslihat hati.
Kita,
Melawan waktu)
Jumat, 03 Juli 2015
"love is work"
What i learned this past few months is that: every relationship in your life requires attention in order for it to grow. It is SO EASY to get busy with your life, maybe you're an activist in your campus,or a 6-hours per day workers, or busy with work or schoold or whatever you're passionate about and not focis on cultivating the love in your life.
This is, sometimes what i forget most often;
i should get dinner with my family more often
i should get coffee with my sisters more
I should hang out with my long old best friend more often
i should had (and he as well) find ways to show that we love each other more often (our mistake over here)
because, if you neglect any relationship it WILL decline overtime. I've had many friends over the years that i've sort of drifted apart from simply because i did not make time from them. Being giving and loving person takes a lot of intentional effort.
And that is something that I'm working on this year, from now on
This is, sometimes what i forget most often;
i should get dinner with my family more often
i should get coffee with my sisters more
I should hang out with my long old best friend more often
i should had (and he as well) find ways to show that we love each other more often (our mistake over here)
because, if you neglect any relationship it WILL decline overtime. I've had many friends over the years that i've sort of drifted apart from simply because i did not make time from them. Being giving and loving person takes a lot of intentional effort.
And that is something that I'm working on this year, from now on
Minggu, 21 Juni 2015
Hello, I'm blogging again
Minggu, 21 Juni 2015
If someone happens to read this
It means you just got in the edited-new-version of my blog
should i say...........YAY??!?
Hahahahah
I just felt this strong desire to repair the whole mess on this blog, and making a new concept on this
Hint: i WILL start to post recipees. Because im getting a little bit overwhelmed by people chat me on Line and asking me the recipes of that meal, this meal, and i think it would be more easier to put it on the blog. (I'm being real serious here)
And to keep me on track of what i had been making
YAY??!! (2)
And again, i am so much surprised by the fact that this blog had been abandoned for like 10 months but the statistics were still going up and reaching six thousand something - blog visits. Like seriously what did you people read??
And My deep, deep, apologize on that. Sorry for the unconsistency of blog posting
I hope you guys have a really great week!
Xoxo, erina
It means you just got in the edited-new-version of my blog
should i say...........YAY??!?
Hahahahah
I just felt this strong desire to repair the whole mess on this blog, and making a new concept on this
Hint: i WILL start to post recipees. Because im getting a little bit overwhelmed by people chat me on Line and asking me the recipes of that meal, this meal, and i think it would be more easier to put it on the blog. (I'm being real serious here)
And to keep me on track of what i had been making
YAY??!! (2)
And again, i am so much surprised by the fact that this blog had been abandoned for like 10 months but the statistics were still going up and reaching six thousand something - blog visits. Like seriously what did you people read??
And My deep, deep, apologize on that. Sorry for the unconsistency of blog posting
I hope you guys have a really great week!
Xoxo, erina
Thoughts on Cheating
Ok, sedikit serius disini.
I recently got question about relationship from a friend. Pertanyaannya adalah seputar
Cheating
If i could write down it all, i have gazillion things to say about cheating. Yes Aku dan pasangan (dulu) memang banyak menemukan ketidakcocokan, argue a lot, but I had never been cheated by my exs, yet i know exactly how destructive a cheating can be, the definition itself, not only can be done by your "pacar" it can happen by your family, surroundings, bestfriends. P.S I'm writing this on my perspective as female plus several thoughts of guy who experienced cheating himself (and pointed out to all my fella boys out there, who have a choice to cheat, OR NOT to cheat)
There might be 10000 reason to cheat on your gf, it maybe because her flaws, kesibukan masing2 dsb. But i want to tell you reason why you shouldnt, and what we (girls) think of it.
Yang kalian para laki2 harus tau adalah, wanita kalau diselingkuhi akan lebih memikirkan alasannya ketimbang siapanya/dengan siapa si laki2 tsb selingkuh. Yes pasti kita memikirkan siapa wanitanya tapi what came up to our mind first adalah "kenapa aku diselingkuhi?"
WHY is more important than WHO
Beda kan dengan laki laki? kalau diselingkuhi, fokus laki2 ada pada siapa laki laki itu? Lalu kalian menghabiskan waktu berpikir siapa laki lakinya tanpa berpikir apa yang salah dengan kalian atau hubungan ini.
I asked my guy friends about this and 90% agreed
Wanita justru berseberangan.
Kalau laki-laki itu selingkuh dengan wanita yang lebih cantik maka wanita yang diselingkuhi akan merasa lebih jelek.
Kalau yang diselingkuhi lebih jelek maka yang diselingkuhi akan merasa dirinya jelek banget.
Yang paling buruk dari keadaan ini adalah rusaknya percaya diri.
Beda dengan laki laki?
Kalau laki laki diselingkuhi, yang rusak harga diri
Kalau wanita, yang rusak percaya diri
Daaan sejujurnya, jika wanita sudah rusak percaya dirinya, dia tidak akan pernah jadi wanita yang sama lagi.
I honestly know that.
So please, for the love of anything holy, don’t cheat on your woman.
The risk of destroying her is too big.
Karena lebih sering terjadi secara statistik, orang kalau berselingkuh akan kembali pada pasangannya semula.
NAH kembali kepada pasangan semula dalam keadaan dia rusak, akan sangat sangat berat untuk bahkan lo sendiri. Ini semua pun masih dalam lingkup pacaran, kalau lingkup hubungan yg lebih serius, the after-effect nya lebih bahaya lagi.
I recently got question about relationship from a friend. Pertanyaannya adalah seputar
Cheating
If i could write down it all, i have gazillion things to say about cheating. Yes Aku dan pasangan (dulu) memang banyak menemukan ketidakcocokan, argue a lot, but I had never been cheated by my exs, yet i know exactly how destructive a cheating can be, the definition itself, not only can be done by your "pacar" it can happen by your family, surroundings, bestfriends. P.S I'm writing this on my perspective as female plus several thoughts of guy who experienced cheating himself (and pointed out to all my fella boys out there, who have a choice to cheat, OR NOT to cheat)
There might be 10000 reason to cheat on your gf, it maybe because her flaws, kesibukan masing2 dsb. But i want to tell you reason why you shouldnt, and what we (girls) think of it.
Yang kalian para laki2 harus tau adalah, wanita kalau diselingkuhi akan lebih memikirkan alasannya ketimbang siapanya/dengan siapa si laki2 tsb selingkuh. Yes pasti kita memikirkan siapa wanitanya tapi what came up to our mind first adalah "kenapa aku diselingkuhi?"
WHY is more important than WHO
Beda kan dengan laki laki? kalau diselingkuhi, fokus laki2 ada pada siapa laki laki itu? Lalu kalian menghabiskan waktu berpikir siapa laki lakinya tanpa berpikir apa yang salah dengan kalian atau hubungan ini.
I asked my guy friends about this and 90% agreed
Wanita justru berseberangan.
Kalau laki-laki itu selingkuh dengan wanita yang lebih cantik maka wanita yang diselingkuhi akan merasa lebih jelek.
Kalau yang diselingkuhi lebih jelek maka yang diselingkuhi akan merasa dirinya jelek banget.
Yang paling buruk dari keadaan ini adalah rusaknya percaya diri.
Beda dengan laki laki?
Kalau laki laki diselingkuhi, yang rusak harga diri
Kalau wanita, yang rusak percaya diri
Daaan sejujurnya, jika wanita sudah rusak percaya dirinya, dia tidak akan pernah jadi wanita yang sama lagi.
I honestly know that.
So please, for the love of anything holy, don’t cheat on your woman.
The risk of destroying her is too big.
Karena lebih sering terjadi secara statistik, orang kalau berselingkuh akan kembali pada pasangannya semula.
NAH kembali kepada pasangan semula dalam keadaan dia rusak, akan sangat sangat berat untuk bahkan lo sendiri. Ini semua pun masih dalam lingkup pacaran, kalau lingkup hubungan yg lebih serius, the after-effect nya lebih bahaya lagi.
Sabtu, 13 September 2014
100th Post!!!! - Highlights of mid 2014
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It has been 3 years i live this blog (5 minus 2 years off).....i know i rarely post on this crappy blog lol and it's 100th post already ---and up to 6000 times blog visits like whoa deep thank you guys i don't even know people read my blog! feels better than jumping to rainbow skittles above the chocolate nutella waterfalls with glittery mermaids. My heart melts, seriously.
xoxo, erina
Rabu, 10 September 2014
It has been a very fast, long, road
Rabu, 10 September 2014
HI IT'S 9.30 PM BAYBEEEY - I have no idea why i just said that.
I (finally) open my laptop because I knew this was going to be a big blogging day for me in explaining the events that happened for the past 3 months and I wanted no detail forgotten or unintentionally erased from my psyche. ...............Well, actually i'll just fast forward the story.
So, i had been in a rough time where i couldn't decide where to go. For some of you who already knew me, you know that (i was thinking) either go to Fakultas teknik, or kedokteran. Well, funny story, after i got rejected in SNMPTN undangan, i turned the wheels and MADE THE BIGGEST AND SUDDEN DECISION to apply SBMPTN test to Manajemen UGM. That was actually my burden long dream that came up to my mind again to study there. Then i felt the dilemma and all the depression. I only got 20 days to study all 3-freaking-years materi IPS. I took the IPC test, I applied to Manajemen-Teknik Industri-Teknik Sipil. People said that was like a suicide, 'cause, at that 20 days left, i had to study all indo english fisika matematika biologi kimia PLUS ekonomi sejarah geografi sosiologi. But i will do whatever it takes, i will roll and struggle even it drops my ass off, to get what i want. I literally studied 19 hours a day non-stops and turned out, I got pretty much satisfying score in the tryouts and Thank God, i passed the test.
IT HAS BEEN A VERY FAST BUT LONG ROAD
And now here I am, a freshman in Management UGM. I chopped my turquoise hair short before student orientation avoiding judgemental people. But it was worth it, the days were fun until came all shiz like social studies,orientation things,events. Not mentioning the task and I am frantic!! You know when there is just no time to rest and all you want is just a deep deep sleep? That is me at the moment , that has been me for the past week. The last thing I want to do is put on pants and I keep finding myself in situations where I have to look pretty. Reading that last sentence back made me kinda hate myself but it’s true! +++ I miss my bf and highschool friends and This is already the umpteenth times a skip my Yoga course, i don't do any sport and I have been EATING! A lot of junk food to be specific, a lot of Pizza and breads and unnecessary amounts of dessert that I don’t even like, i got influenza and as I have mentioned 94752975297539 times to you all, I have NOT been feeling 100 percent, which is very much the truth but I’m not sure skipping yoga is going to be the cause of my condition worsening.
Well, good news are, I love the new atmosphere, i get along really well, I am excited about many things at once, and the feb building is beyond great (Cliche.............but true).
Happy WEDNESDAY- IT’S ALMOST THE WEEKEND!!!!!!
xoxo, erina
